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The Only Way Out Is Through

Some trees need fire to survive

The cosmic rebirth you didn't ask for? (Or did you!?)   Beloveds, Have you been feeling that brain-on-fire feeling of late? Perhaps like me, expending some extra mental energy trying to figure out ALL the things. Attempting to figure out WHY something is or is...

Is it “just” grief? Or a dark night of the soul…

What I've learned about both   Beloveds, Oof this last week brought up lots of new/old feels, namely around grief. (Curious if you felt it too?) So it was great timing when a good friend asked if there was only darkness and despair in my dark night experiences....

Descending into the collective dark night

What if this process is absolutely necessary?   Beloveds, As a three-time underworld champion of the dark night of the soul, you could say I have a wee bit of experience when it comes to the stages of this profound rite of passage as well as the promise it holds...

{women’s retreat in Santa Fe} Connect, Create, Retreat with me

Beloved, Please join me live in Santa Fe, New Mexico for an astrology inspired women's healing retreat. The amazing astro-guide, Emily Trinkaus, and I are at it again. this time with a series of women's circles focused intently on deep, radical, juicy connection - to...

Forged From Darkness 🖤

Beloved, My (somewhat late) birthday gift to you… one helluva sacred and powerful conversation about the Dark Night of the Soul. I don’t know why this reality is structured in such a way as to provide ample opportunity for experiences such as these; sometimes grueling...

Courage Amidst Chaos

Beloved, As I reflect on the turning of another solar year, I find myself using the word "courage" quite a lot. I sense I am being pulled towards a great unknown. I'm deep in the mystery, not quite sure where this river is carrying me. And I bet you are as well,...
Is Your Story Is Out To Get You? Change Your Story!
Is Your Story Is Out To Get You? Change Your Story!

Ever feel like your stories are trying to kill you? What's your story? And can you change your story?   In my world, your story is the set of conditioned beliefs that you believe to be true. These are the beliefs that you inherited from countless generations...

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Finding Balance on The Full Crow Moon
Finding Balance on The Full Crow Moon

Why is finding balance so challenging sometimes?   Like now, for instance.   We've been cooped up for months. Long nights. Cold days. Hibernating, watching Netflix, drinking and eating more. We're stir crazy. And beneath it all, there's this feeling of new...

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Is Your Passion Project Collecting Dust?
Is Your Passion Project Collecting Dust?

Hey, does this ever happen in your world? Got any passion projects you can't seem to get off the ground?   You know what you want to be doing with your time and energy, you’ve got the skills and know-how to get it done, you're super excited about it, but somehow...

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Everybody’s Got a Hungry Heart
Everybody’s Got a Hungry Heart

We humans are a curious bunch. Our brains and bodies are neurologically and biologically wired for connection. We need it, we want it, and we can’t live – like, really live – without it. We’re hungry for it. At the center of this hunger is the heart. So intrinsic to...

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Self-Acceptance Changes Everything
Self-Acceptance Changes Everything

We all do, say, and think cringe-worthy stuff from time to time. We’ve done it in our personal lives, we’ve done it at work, we’ve done it the dinner table. I know I’ve spent A LOT of mental and emotional energy in the past, hashing and rehashing something I said (or...

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2018. A Conflagration in Review.
2018. A Conflagration in Review.

Is hope possible? 2018 saw massive upheaval. We stood on shifting sands. We burned alive, trying to escape. The survivors breathed in and choked on our remains. The monstrous, racist head of nationalism rose up the world over. And in this precious moment, hundreds of...

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I go dark in December.
I go dark in December.

I go dark in December. (My shadows come out to play.) Even though true winter arrives in a few weeks, it feels like we’re there already. Cold, long nights make for easier sleep and set the stage for looking inward. I used to go dark this time every year. I would sink...

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Mindset Mastery
Mindset Mastery

What is Mindset Mastery, you ask? Mastery is all about awareness, alignment, and action. Step 1 is always awareness. We have to become aware of our thought patterns, because they create emotional responses, which lead directly to our actions and what we perceive to be...

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Why We Meditate (Try not to hate, Love your mate)
Why We Meditate (Try not to hate, Love your mate)

Like so many others who come to meditation, I was curious about the health benefits, and seeking respite from an overactive mind. I remember crying to a friend that it was only during my meditation period that I could feel any sense of peace or calm in my life. It was...

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Heartbreak, Betrayal, and Loss
Heartbreak, Betrayal, and Loss

How We Live With an Open Heart During Uncertain Times Life can be prickly sometimes. We brush up against some uncomfortable edges now and again.   Some tongues have razors. Some people are steamrollers. Sometimes it’s just bad luck.   We fight. We lie. We...

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A Moment of Mercy
A Moment of Mercy

There’s been a lot of upheaval in my personal life recently. Health issues for loved ones, a big move on the horizon, and my own continued journey to improved health, not to mention all the external uncertainties our society and our planet are facing.   In times...

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Don’t Be An Ass
Don’t Be An Ass

Why are we so silly sometimes, insisting on schlepping our burdens for months, years, decades? When, unlike this poor beast, we have the choice to simply set them down? Why do we struggle? I’d say that by the time I was 11 years old, I was definitely a little ass. My...

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